Asking a Question

November 12, 2009 – 12:38 pm

I have always been a guy of many questions.  For as long as I can remember, I have been asking everyone around me questions, including my at time infamous “what if” scenarios.

It’s due in part to my natural curiosity, but also an innate interest in others.  While I’m definitely a talker myself, I love learning more about the people around me, close friends or not.  It may just be the anthropologist in me!

I’ve learned again over the past week just how much a simple question can mean to someone.  Asking the ubiquitous “how are you” doesn’t count!

I would urge you to give it a whirl.  Next time you walk past someone at the front desk of your office building or you see the UPS guys that comes to your office every day, try asking them a question and starting a short conversation.  It may end up making their day!

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Back to my computer

October 29, 2009 – 1:50 pm

I’ve been away for far too long from the Perfect Foam!  My humble apologies…

In one of my last posts before leaving on my trip abroad, I shared with you my goal of abstaining from email.  I am delighted to report that I was successful!  Now it’s your turn!

For three glorious weeks I neither wrote an email nor looked at an email.  I will admit that for the first week or so I still went online a few times, mainly to keep up-to-date on my favorite sports teams.  For the second two weeks, though, I spent the least amount of time that I ever have sitting in front of a computer.

The verdict- it was amazingly liberating and cleansing!  For three weeks my entire focus was on the real world, as opposed to the virtual world of computers.  My interactions with people were in person (a novel concept nowadays) and I loved it.  Naturally, since returning I’ve shifted back into checking my email numerous times per day and visiting those same few websites over and over.  However, I am doing my best to abstain from email on the weekends as a compromise, and I even hope to stay away from email after work as well.

Fighting against computers is an almost hopeless battle, but my few weeks away showed me the wonderful world of not staring at a screen for hours each day.  Now I just have to find that elusive middle ground.  Wish me luck!

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Work, Work, Work

September 2, 2009 – 2:42 pm

After reading a friend’s blog post on taking a month of for the first time since he was in high school (he’s middle-aged), it got me thinking about why it is that our society seemingly rewards work above all else.

Shouldn’t we have other interests (and time for them!) outside of work?  Shouldn’t we have time for our families?  Shouldn’t we have time to maintain a sense of a food culture that doesn’t involve processed food?

For many of us the hours in an office, sitting behind a computer don’t allow any of this.  Some of my friends are or have worked upwards of 80-90 hours per week!  That’s a staggering amount!

Most jobs only start at 1-2 weeks of vacation time, while in Europe most people have at least a month off (plus numerous holidays).  So while the hours pile up, the days off are few and far in between.  And then while on vacation, most people still can’t quite let go, checking their work email and voice mail messages on a daily basis!

Hard work is definitely a virtue, but what about its opposite- over-work?  Who determined the amount of hard work that is sufficient?

Maybe in the mad dash to constantly work harder and longer, in the seemingly unending struggle to get bigger and better we are leaving more and more behind?

Any thoughts?

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Titles

August 28, 2009 – 1:10 pm

It’s been a while since I’ve truly ranted, so I thought it was time once again.  The topic is titles.  As in Dr., M.D., J.D., Ph.D., etc.

I’m of the opinion that titles should have no bearing on how we introduce ourselves or call ourselves.  I completely understand being called Dr. in the appropriate setting, which naturally is a doctor’s office or hospital.  When meeting someone and shaking hands I think we should all simply stick to our names.  Nothing more, nothing less.

Or how about on mailing labels (for newspapers or magazines)?  Is it really necessary to have your name read: “John Smith, M.D.” or “Dr. John Smith”?

The idea of a title is odd to me.  If you study to be a medical doctor (or even complete your doctoral studies) then hopefully you are doing it for reasons other than the title, the prestige, or (only) the money.  Through the course of a normal conversation what you do for a living will invariably come up.  At that time, you will have ample opportunity to impress on the other person what it is that you do.  Other than when talking about your profession, how about sticking to just “John Smith”.

Why are people so concerned with introducing themselves or qualifying themselves with a title?  I have some ideas, but there’s no need to get mean about this just yet!

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No More Email!

August 20, 2009 – 3:55 pm

At least for a couple of weeks.

I will be embarking on a trip abroad very shortly and I have decided that for the duration of my trip I will abstain from email.  My goal is to not check my email even once.  No reading any emails as well as no writing any emails!

This may not seem like such a big deal, but my trip isn’t a short one, and to venture a guess, I would say that for many of us the longest period of time spent without email is at most a couple of days.

Since mentioning this goal to my girlfriend (she is also going to make the same attempt) I have been reflecting on why it is so difficult for us to “get away”.  Are we afraid that we might miss out on news we can’t live without?  That someone might not be able to reach us (OMG)?

The same excuse is usually thrown around as the reason why we have to check our email, texts, or voicemail.  In case of an emergency, we want to be reachable!  Well, I don’t buy that excuse at all.  There are ways of ensuring that in case of a real emergency we are still reachable, and yes I will still be reachable on my trip.  Though you may have to go through my family to find me!

I have traveled abroad fairly extensively and I have always made numerous stops at Internet cafes to check my email.  I know it will be tough, but it’s a challenge that I’m looking forward to.

I am hoping to cleanse myself from staring at a computer all day, checking my email a million times, and visiting the same few websites over and over again.  I will let you know how it goes, but in the meantime I have to check my email!

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Sequoia National Park

July 19, 2009 – 1:47 pm

Over July 4th weekend I had the pleasure of finally going to Sequoia National Park.  I have always loved trees and I have always had an interest in wooden objects.  And for as long as I can remember I have wanted to visit Sequoia.

I’ve been meaning to sit down and write about my trip since the day I got back.  I usually write in a journal when I travel, but my current journal is full.  In lieu of a hand-written entry I thought I would share my experience on my blog instead.

My girlfriend and I arrived on the Thursday night before the 4th and checked into our tent cabin at Grant Grove, which is actually located in Kings Canyon.  Sequoia and Kings Canyon are administered as one park, so we decided to stay at the midway point between The Giant Forest (in Sequoia) and Cedar Grove (also in Kings Canyon).

We spent our first full day in the park (Friday) at the Giant Forest.  The star attraction is the General Sherman Tree, which is the world’s largest tree (it’s also recognized as being the world’s largest living organism).  It isn’t the tallest or the widest, but the most massive.

I’ve been to Muir Woods and seen the coastal redwoods (related to the sequoias).  These trees actually grow to be taller than sequoias, but not as wide, nor as massive.  Nothing prepares you for your first experience with these giant sequoias.  Simply put, they are HUGE.  HUGE.  HUGE.  HUGE.  They are such well-proportioned trees, though, that it is tough to get a real sense of how big these trees actually are.  Certainly photographs do no justice to their true size, but even when you are standing in front of a sequoia it’s not always clear how big they are.

I think their size is simply too massive for a human brain to completely conceptualize!  It’s something I struggled with for the entire weekend.  No matter how hard I looked or how often I looked the size of the sequoias never quite hit me.

The weekend ended up being one full of hiking.  Over 20 miles.  This was a huge distance for me!  I love playing sports, but hiking is not normally an activity I enjoy so much.  Needless to say, this hiking was different and though we were both completely wiped at the end of every day, it was incredible.

Sequoia National Park is a tourist-friendly park.  What I mean by that is that the main attractions are easily accessible by car and bus.  People can hop out, take a quick look, and continue on.  But the beautiful aspect of the park is that as long as you are willing to walk a little it’s fairly easily to get away from the hordes quickly.  So that’s exactly what we did.

We went on an absolutely gorgeous hike, walking among the giants of the forest.  I continually stopped, looked at the trees around me, and tried to make myself take as many mental pictures as possible.  There is so much beauty in the park that (as with the size of the trees) it’s tough to take it all in.

There are no more grizzly bears (brown bears) left in California.  At one time there were actually 10,000 of them in the state, but as humans often tend to do, they killed them ALL.  However, there are black bears and mountain lions in the park, both of which I was dying to see in the wild.  We kept walking by people saying they had just seen a bear (if not two of them!) just ahead of us, but we kept missing them.  I resigned myself to the fact that it probably wouldn’t happen on this trip and of course that’s when I spotted one!  It was a smaller (younger?) bear, doing exactly what the video we had watched earlier that morning said they do.  Scratching around in a fallen log for insects and grubs.  There were no other people around and watching the bear in its element was a main highlight of the weekend!

We finished our hike by walking around an amazing meadow in the middle of the forest and then headed back to Grant Grove.  We were tired, but completely content.  What an incredible day!

We celebrated Independence Day by driving out to Cedar Grove and hiking up to Mist Falls.  It was a completely different experience than our hike the day before, but it was also very enjoyable.  The waterfall itself is beautiful and the mountain scenery surrounding it is stunning.  After about 10 miles of hiking we ended the day with an absolutely incredible (beautiful, stunning, etc.), short 1.5 mile hike around Zumwalt Meadow.  Just as words don’t come in very useful when attempting to describe sequoias, there isn’t a good way to describe how beautiful the Cedar Grove area is.  You’ll just have to take my word for it!

On our last day, we paid a visit to the General Grant Tree.  Not quite as large as General Sherman, but equally as impressive.  We continued on to Converse Basin, which is actually a sad place to visit.  Converse Basin had one of the largest groves of sequoias in the world, but loggers decimated it, destroying what would have been an amazing sight to see.

They did leave one tree standing, called the Boole Tree, which you have to hike out to see.  It’s quite the experience because the Boole Tree comes out of nowhere.  Seeing a full-grown sequoia by itself surrounded by much smaller trees, put into perspective a little more for me just how big these trees are.  We had the tree all to ourselves and spending 20 minutes just hanging out around its massive trunk (wider than the Sherman and Grant trees) was calming and peaceful.  All human sense of time just stops when hanging out with a sequoia.  And I really enjoyed that.

It was unfortunately time to head back to San Francisco.  For the duration of the drive home I felt the park trying to pull me back.  It’s a magical place and one to which I will definitely return.

(This picture is off General Sherman.  Looking up from its trunk, you get a pretty good sense of both how tall and how wide sequoias are!)

(This picture is of General Grant.  It has a beautiful canopy and you can see the enormous branches coming off the top.  Some of these branches are bigger than any full-grown tree on the East Coast!)

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The Hangover

July 18, 2009 – 12:03 am

There is almost nothing I enjoy as much as watching a movie.  Especially one that really, REALLY makes me laugh.

Dumb and Dumber, The Big Lebowski, American Pie.

A movie that holds your attention for a couple of hours and makes you laugh pretty much the whole time is a rarity.  But when you see one, the wait is very much worth it!

I went to see The Hangover tonight and for two glorious hours my mind didn’t wander for even a millisecond.  I can’t remember the last time I laughed so hard in a movie theater, especially for an entire movie.

Go see The Hangover tomorrow night.  Just do it!  I promise you that it won’t disappoint.

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Seafood Watch!!!

July 16, 2009 – 1:19 pm

I mentioned the Seafood Watch pocket guides in an earlier post.  Well, they’ve been updated so get your new pocket guides here:

http://www.montereybayaquarium.org/cr/cr_seafoodwatch/download.aspx

Our oceans are in turmoil and anything we as consumers can do to make sustainable choices at restaurants and at the grocery store can help.  Please do your part!

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Chance Encounter

July 15, 2009 – 10:55 pm

I went to the Ferry Building Farmer’s Market yesterday (part of my Tuesday routine) around lunchtime to do a bit of shopping and to enjoy an unusually warm San Francisco day.  It was close to 90!

I got the shopping part done in 10 minutes or so.  Then I sat down next to a man in his seventies, on a bench near the pier.  I had asked him if the space next to him was available and when he answered in the affirmative I heard what I though was an Australian accent.

I asked him if he was indeed from Down Under, but it turned out that he was from England.  This one question turned into quite the pleasurable hour-long conversation.  Not the first time this has happened to me (unsurprisingly enough)!

We covered topics from religion, to family, to rugby, to traveling the world.  I loved it!  There is nothing like making a connection with another human being and enjoying some one-on-one conversation.  Almost like catching up with an old friend at a cafe!

Don’t be afraid to chat up your next bench-mate.  You never know where your next fufilling conversation is going to come from!

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Better or Worse?

July 8, 2009 – 1:28 pm

For some people their least favorite doctor’s appointment of the year is the one with the dentist.  Not for me.  It’s not that I love having my teeth cleaned, it’s just that I really don’t like my yearly check-up with the optometrist.

I was back at the optometrist two weeks ago for the first time in over a year.  Different doctor, same painful experience.

Now I don’t have any crazy weird phobia of the eye doctor.  I swear!  It’s that I hate the extremely bright lights shining in my eyes from all angles, and I really hate getting my eyes dilated (with more bright lights following).

The “better or worse” process doesn’t bother me as much.  For those of you wondering what the hell that means, let me explain.  A routine part of the yearly check-up is looking through a contraption at rows of letters on a screen in front you.  The contraption simulates glasses and the optometrist has the ability to change the power of the lenses you are looking through to determine your prescription.  With each variation of lenses that you look through, the doctor asks, “better or worse?”  (at least my optometrists have framed the question this way!)

The minute I make my yearly appointment I begin hearing this question in my mind.  “Better or worse?  Better or worse?  Better or worse?”  It’s not the better or worse part that bothers me; it’s the reminder of those annoying lights to come!

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